Thursday, July 17, 2008
if you could alter your life in any way, would you?in life, we experience everything. there is the feeling of bliss, happiness, the down times and of course the times of regret. we do things and make decisions with the assumption in us that things would go the way we want them to be. unfortunately, reality is cruel and twisted. whats new right? things dont always go our way, even if we try our best to put them on the right track, it sometimes still wilfully went to the 'left'. and then, we would go through in the mind all the what ifs questions and thinking how would things be instead if another choice was made. sometimes, we would regret our initial and wished that we had done otherwise instead. but at other times, we're still glad that we didnt chose the other.
if we have the choice, to change things or decisions to the way which gives us our most wanted results, would we be really happier?
well, it may be yes. afterall, if things dont go well this way, we can rewind and do it another way, till it became the best way. this means we can do away with the possible disappointments and regrets. but is this truly the best answer for us? we are going against the rule of nature and technically speaking designing the results on our own. we are controlling happenings in our lives, like what authors for books and scriptwriters for films are doing: planning and then playing things according to the written scroll. however, things will not be what they are, people are not themselves anymore. would the result still serve the same purpose? do you really feel happier?
things happen for reasons, whatever they are.
