Saturday, May 02, 2009
they say we need to live our life. cos in this life, we get to live only once.you live it, or you dont.they always say,
dont live a life with regrets. but how easy is that gonna be. for words and actions, they never weigh the same. yes of course we do our best for every thing that comes along and we thought that makes it no room for any regrets. but then when we do look back again, chances are that we might realise what we have done could have been done better in another way or so. so thats one form of regret. going this way, it seems that both giving your best and vice versa gives you the same old ending. you still end up with regrets. how cliche.
and each time we regretted some thing, somehow we like to promise ourself that we will not allow history to repeat itself again. consider that a mistake done and lesson learnt? or maybe also a valuable experience gained. thats pretty much what life sums up to, life experience. while we go progress through each stage of the life cycle, our life experience gets more input and in one way or so they helped us in dealing situations/people, solving and analysing problems. i guess that what regrets do best to us, they make us feel the pain, in turn help us to grow while adding stories to our lives. this is positive taking of regrets by the way. of course we do encounter times when we took regrets negatively and it churns out all sorts of problems and not forgetting it impacts on our confidence and morale as well. so the bottomline, its inevitable that we do misjudge, make mistakes or even make the wrong choices. the focus should be on how we took the things from then. our attitude usually makes a whole lots of difference to what things could/should be.
do what you strongly believe in, only then they say, you'll live without regrets.my question is, what if one day you dont even know what you believe in anymore?
